Sometimes it happens in small, ordinary moments. Your son is on his phone smiling, and you can tell someone has his attention. Or he mentions her name more often, and you realize this relationship is starting to matter to him. You feel happy for him, but you also feel the weight of it. You want him to be loved well. You want him to make wise choices. You want peace in his heart, and you want his future protected.
That is why I, as a mother, compiled a list of Prayers for My Son and His Girlfriend for other parents in a similar situation. Not because we want to control their relationship, but because we care, and we know prayer can reach places we cannot. We may not see every conversation, every pressure, or every temptation they face, but God does. And when we bring them to Him, we are placing them under His guidance, His protection, and His peace.
If you have been carrying questions like, “Is this relationship healthy?” “Are they treating each other with respect?” “Will this draw them closer to God?”—you are in the right place. The prayers in this article are honest from a parent’s heart.
A Short Word Before You Pray
It is normal to want the best for your son. But it is also important to remember that God loves him even more than you do. When you pray, you are placing his relationship into God’s hands.
Some days you may feel confident. Other days you may feel worried. Bring both to God. Ask for discernment, but also ask for peace. Ask God to guide them, but also ask Him to guide you as a parent—so your words and actions come from love, not fear.
How To Use These Prayers
You can pray one prayer each day, or choose the one that fits what you are seeing right now.
A simple pattern:
- Pray the prayer slowly.
- Read the scripture out loud.
- Add one sentence in your own words.
- End with trust, not pressure.
Prayers For A Healthy Relationship For My Son And His Girlfriend
These prayers ask God to build a relationship that is respectful, honest, and safe. They are meant to cover the foundation before you pray for bigger things.
1. A Prayer For God’s Guidance Over Their Relationship
Heavenly Father,
Please guide my son and his girlfriend. Help them make choices that honor You. Give them wisdom in what they say and do, and keep them from rushing into anything without peace. Let their relationship be led by Your truth and not by pressure or feelings alone. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture (KJV): “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5)
2. A Prayer For Respect And Kindness Between Them
Gracious God,
Please help my son and his girlfriend treat each other with respect. Keep their words gentle and their hearts humble. Help them listen well, forgive quickly, and speak truth without being harsh. Let kindness be normal in their relationship. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.” (Ephesians 4:32)
3. A Prayer For Honesty And Trust
Lord God,
Please keep their relationship honest. Remove lies, hiding, and secret behavior. Help them be truthful with each other and with themselves. Build trust in a clean way, and let truth guide their decisions. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour.” (Ephesians 4:25)
Prayers For Purity, Boundaries, And Godly Choices
This is a sensitive area, but it matters. These prayers ask for self-control, wise boundaries, and decisions that protect their future.
4. A Prayer For Purity And Self-Control
Holy Father,
Please help my son and his girlfriend walk in purity. Give them self-control and strength to make wise choices. Keep them from temptation that can damage trust or bring regret. Help them honor You with their bodies, their minds, and their private decisions. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture (KJV): “For this is the will of God, even your sanctification.” (1 Thessalonians 4:3)
5. A Prayer For Healthy Boundaries
Dear Lord,
Please give them wisdom to set healthy boundaries. Help them know when to slow down and when to say no. Keep them from pressure, manipulation, or unhealthy attachment. Let their relationship grow in a safe and steady way. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.” (Proverbs 25:28)
6. A Prayer For Wisdom In Their Decisions
Father God,
Please give them wisdom in every decision they make. Help them choose friends, places, and habits that build them up. Keep them from choices that look small but lead to harm. Give them discernment to know what is right, and courage to do it. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture (KJV): “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God.” (James 1:5)
Prayers For Protection And Peace Over Their Future
Relationships can face pressure from many sides—friends, family, temptations, and fear. These prayers ask God to protect them and bring peace.
7. A Prayer For Protection From Harm And Bad Influence
God Almighty,
Please protect my son and his girlfriend from harm. Keep them safe physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Guard them from bad influence and from people who want to pull them into wrong choices. Surround them with wise, caring friends and good counsel. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.” (Psalm 121:7)
8. A Prayer For Peace When They Face Conflict
Loving Father,
When they face misunderstanding or conflict, please give them peace. Help them not to respond with pride or anger. Teach them to talk things through calmly and to forgive quickly. Let peace lead their relationship, not drama or bitterness. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture (KJV): “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
9. A Prayer For Emotional Healing From Past Hurts
Merciful God,
If either of them is carrying pain from the past, please bring healing. Keep old wounds from shaping how they love each other now. Help them not to punish each other for what someone else did. Teach them to be patient, honest, and gentle as they grow. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture: “He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3)
Prayers For God’s Will And A Blessed Outcome
As a parent, you may want the relationship to work out. Or you may feel unsure. These prayers help you place the future in God’s hands.
10. A Prayer That God’s Will Would Be Done
Sovereign Lord,
Please let Your will be done in my son’s relationship. If this relationship is good and right, help it grow in a healthy way. If it is not, please bring clarity and the courage to do what is right. Protect them from wasting years in something that is not meant to last. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture (KJV): “In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” (Proverbs 3:6)
11. A Prayer For A Christ-Centered Relationship
Lord Jesus,
Please be at the center of their relationship. Draw both of them closer to You. Let prayer, truth, and humility shape how they treat each other. Help them encourage one another to do what is right, even when it is hard. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
“Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it.” (Psalm 127:1)
12. A Prayer For Their Future And A Blessed Home
Eternal God,
I place their future in Your hands. If they are meant to build a life together, please help them build it with wisdom and peace. Provide what they need, shape their character, and guard their love. Let their future home be filled with respect, faith, and joy. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Scripture (KJV): “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.” (Proverbs 10:22)
Conclusion
As a parent, it is natural to care deeply about your son’s relationship. But you do not have to carry the weight alone. God sees your son. He sees his girlfriend. He knows what is happening behind the scenes, and He knows what they need.
As you pray these prayers, keep it simple and steady. Pray one each day, and read the scripture under it slowly. Ask God for wisdom to know how to support them well—without control, without fear, and with love. Your prayers are not wasted, and God can guide their relationship in the right direction.
Frequently Asked Questions About Prayer For My Son And His Girlfriend
How Do I Pray For My Son And His Girlfriend The Right Way?
Pray simply and specifically. Ask God to guide their choices, protect their hearts, and help them treat each other with respect. You can also pray for wisdom as a parent, so you know when to speak and when to stay quiet.
What Should I Pray For In My Son’s Relationship?
Pray for love that is patient and kind, honesty, healthy boundaries, and peace. Pray that they will grow in character, make wise decisions, and walk in a way that honors God. If you are worried, pray for discernment and clarity.
Can I Pray That They Will Get Married?
Yes, you can bring that desire to God. But it helps to pray with an open heart: ask God to lead them into His will, whether that means marriage or a kind and peaceful ending if the relationship is not right.
What If I Don’t Like My Son’s Girlfriend?
Start by praying for your own heart—peace, humility, and wisdom. Ask God to show you what you may not be seeing. Then pray for your son’s protection and discernment. If you sense real red flags, pray for courage to speak calmly and lovingly at the right time.
What If Their Relationship Is Becoming Toxic Or Unhealthy?
Pray for protection, truth, and courage. Ask God to expose what is hidden and to stop patterns of manipulation, disrespect, or harm. Also, if there is emotional or physical abuse, do not handle it with prayer alone—encourage your son to get help from trusted family, church leaders, or professionals.
How Can I Pray For Them Without Controlling Them?
Pray privately and consistently, and keep your words to them gentle. Ask God to guide you as a parent. When you do speak, focus on love, wisdom, and safety, not pressure. Let prayer be your first response, not anxiety.
What Bible Verse Can I Use As A Prayer For My Son And His Girlfriend?
A simple verse many parents pray is Proverbs 3:5–6. It asks God for guidance and direction. You can read it out loud and then ask God to lead their relationship in the right path.
How Often Should I Pray For My Son And His Girlfriend?
As often as you feel led. Some parents pray daily, others pray a few times a week. A simple plan is one prayer a day for 12 days, or one prayer each week and repeat it through the week. The most important thing is to be steady, not perfect.
